“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:28-30).
I confess that although I have always taken great comfort in this passage, I never fully understood it until lately. I just thought that it meant that Jesus would help me carry my burdens, perhaps even carry them for me. In fact, these words of Scripture are an important part of my personal testimony. What I could not understand is exactly why Jesus told us to take his yoke; I never thought his burden would be lighter than mine. I wanted him to take my yoke.
You see, a yoke is a tool. It’s a way to balance a load to carry a heavy load more easily. For example, you could more easily carry two big buckets of water if each were hanging from the side of a bar/yoke placed across your back than you could carry just one of the buckets by grabbing the handle. But notice, Jesus never says he will take the load (I just read into it what I hoped would happen). We still have burdens to bear, and sometimes very heavy burdens. Jesus is telling us that he has the tools to help with the load to make it easier to carry. His yoke is easy; we should take his yoke and learn from him.
This really hits home for me because my husband is all about the tools. My style is to plunge in and muscle my way through any task. For example, I like to cook, and I like to use fresh vegetables. This means lots of chopping. I have knives, and a chopping board, so my husband will sit at our kitchen island and watch me chop away (do you have someone who likes to watch you while you work?). Invariably, he will say, “When is the last time you sharpened your knife?” Although we have two or three knife sharpeners, my answer will invariably be, “Never.” Why take the time? I could be finished chopping by the time I found and used the sharpener. But if he’s there, he will stop me, take my knife, find the sharpener, and quickly sharpen it. And then yes, I must admit, the chopping goes so much faster and easier. I’m still the one prepping for dinner, but he has made my yoke easier.
Jesus is like having a knife sharpener, a food processor, an air fryer. How, you ask? Jesus gives us the tools to deal with the chores and burdens of life. But they don’t work if they remain in the drawer; they must be used. The tools I’m speaking of are the practices that Jesus teaches, his unforced rhythms of grace, most of which are counterintuitive. For example, to get more done, spend more time in prayer and devotion. We learn this from the many examples in the gospels of Jesus going away to pray, even when there is so much going on all around him. That’s counterintuitive. I have too much to do, and not enough time as it is. However, focused time with God in prayer reveals His wisdom for how we should live our lives, how we should prioritize and make wise decisions. Focused time with God in prayer gives us access to the Holy Spirit who empowers us to do things right the first time; to eliminate wastefulness in our thoughts, words, and actions by aligning ourselves with the will of God. Consistent, focused time with God is never a waste of time; it will always produce rewards.
This message is adapted from a book by John Mark Comer, The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry. In the book, the author gives four practices for reordering our life to accomplish three goals:
1. To be with Jesus.
2. To become like Jesus.
3. To do what Jesus would if he were in my shoes.
If you are interested in pursuing these goals, I recommend this book to you so that you can learn more about the recommended practices, or tools. And I would love to hear your thoughts about it and what you are doing to implement some of the author’s (I mean Jesus’) recommendations.
“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly” (Matthew 11:28-30 – The Message).
In Christ,
Judy