“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).

This verse certainly sounds like a promise to me. It is conditional: if we confess, then Jesus forgives. But we need to get this positioned correctly. This is not a promise of salvation. In fact, John’s letter in which this promise is stated is written to believers, people who are already saved. So why do we need to confess? Because as Christians, we have a right desire to pursue a deeper and growing relationship with Jesus.

Part of coming a Christian is admitting that we are sinners. Then, in our salvation, we are new creations in Christ, no longer defined by our sinful nature. However, that does not mean that we stop sinning. Oh, we wish we could! Like Paul, we bemoan our propensity to sin. “For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing” (Romans 7:18b-19). Unfortunately, we will sin until we die. But the difference is that we have someone to go to. Someone who loves us and wants to forgive us when we ask. This is part of working out our salvation. As believers, we are justified in Christ. Our justification, or right standing with God, is the basis for our continued forgiveness when we confess our sins.

In the Chaplain’s Corner series on the fruits of the spirit, we learned that peace really means reconciliation. Jesus, as Prince of Peace, died on the cross in the great exchange to reconcile back to God those who receive this wonderful gift, as stated in John 3:16. This is what we remember during this Lenten season. Sin results in separation from God. Confession and forgiveness are how we are reconciled to God. Quoting from the June 15, 2022 Chaplain’s Corner, “It all starts with our personal relationship with God. We must be fully reconciled to God. That means we regularly confess our sins to Him, or in other words, agree with Him about our thoughts, words, and actions. It means that we regularly seek His forgiveness and strive to obey Him. It means that we receive His forgiveness and His love, and that we are always thankful. And the good news is that Jesus has already made peace with us. ‘You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you’ (Isaiah 26:3).“

There is something more to know about forgiveness. Jesus is very clear that if we do not forgive others, we will not be forgiven. This is also a promise.

• “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins” (Matthew 6:14-15).
• “If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them. Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them” (Luke 17:3-4).
• “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift” (Matthew 5:23-24).
• “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?’ Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times” (Matthew 18:21-22).
• The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant (Matthew 18:21-35)

So, we must confess our sins regularly. And if we struggle with unforgiveness in our own hearts, we must also genuinely confess that as well and ask God through the power of the Holy Spirit to give us a spirit of forgiveness. If this is difficult for you, this article may help.

“Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose” (Philippians 2:12-13).

In Christ,

Judy