“Forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:13-14).
Continuing our theme of goal setting, as we anticipate the coming of Christ during this Holy Season, I am writing about joy. It is the time to rejoice with exceeding great joy! As in the first three goals of this series (trust, wisdom, love), joy is in our control. We can choose to have joy, to be joyful, just like we can choose to trust, to gain wisdom, and to love.
I’m no psychologist, but I believe that most humans are inclined “go negative” without some intentional changing of the mind. An article from Psychology Today bears this out. So, to be joyful requires an intention, a choice, a follow-through.
Perhaps it would be helpful to describe or define “joy.” One good definition from Christianity Today is this: “Simply put, Biblical joy is choosing to respond to external circumstances with inner contentment and satisfaction, because we know that God will use these experiences to accomplish His work in and through our lives.” Joy is not being giddy regardless of what is going on, it is not denying our hurts. The fact is that for many, the Christmas season is painful and depressing, and perhaps for valid reasons. So how can we be joyful when we are hurting?
The great news is that we are not on our own. We do have help. Joy is actually a fruit of the spirit, meaning that is a gift or empowerment to all believers by the Holy Spirit when we accept Christ as our Savior. In fact, not only is it available, but joy is also necessary to our Christian walk and testimony. Christians are known by their fruit. Do you want to be known as a Christian? It’s not enough to say you are a Christian. You and I must walk the talk. So then, how do we exhibit the joy that is the fruit of the spirit?
First: Realize that joy is not mutually exclusive with other emotions. Of course, you will mourn and grieve a loss, but you can still have hope. Of course, you will likely experience pain from sickness or injury, but you can still be thankful. Of course, you will be angry when you see someone mistreated, but you can still allow God to use you. Of course, you will be frustrated when troubles come your way (and they surely will), but you can still be content. In other words, don’t think that to be joyful you should not feel pain, bereavement, anger, frustration, etc. Jesus himself felt bereavement, pain, anger, and frustration.
Second: Remember that as believers, regardless of our circumstances, we always have Jesus. He is in us, and we are in Him. The Apostle Paul reinforces, writing from prison while anticipating execution: “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! (Philippians 4:4). Jesus himself says, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33). And James tells us to “consider it pure joy when we face trials of many kinds” (James 1:2).
Third: Reframe your mind to have a joyful mindset; in other words, determine to be joyful. “For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace” (Romans 8:6). Decide that your contentment will be in your relationship with Jesus. Intentionally look for beauty in your surroundings, whether it be in a flower or a child’s smile or in a kind gesture, and give thanks to God.
Fourth, fifth, and sixth: Reflect on your day, repent when you have failed, and resolve to do better tomorrow, with the counsel of the Holy Spirit. We are disciples on a journey; we are pressing on; we are not there yet, but one day we know we will experience joy that knows no bounds. “You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore” (Psalm 16:11).
Brothers and sisters in Christ, we have the best reason in the world to be joyful. Let us rejoice with the Wise Men at this most joyful time of year:
“When they heard the king (Herod), they departed; and behold, the star which they had seen in the East went before them, till it came and stood over where the young Child was. When they saw the star, they rejoiced with exceedingly great joy. And when they had come into the house, they saw the young Child with Mary His mother, and fell down and worshiped Him. And when they had opened their treasures, they presented gifts to Him: gold, frankincense, and myrrh. (Matthew 2:9-11)
In Christ,
Judy
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