“Forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:13-14).

Continuing our theme of goal setting, and seeking first the Kingdom as our priority, today’s devotional will focus on pressing on by working toward greater love. We have already discussed the goals of greater trust and greater wisdom. In the weeks to come we will discuss greater joy and unity.

Today I will write about love. Here are some strong statements, commands even, about love from throughout the Bible:

• “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.”  Deuteronomy 6:5; Matthew 22:37; Mark 12:30; Luke 10:27
• “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Leviticus 19:28; Matthew 22:39; Mark 12:31; Luke 10:27
• “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.” John 13:34
• “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.” John 15:12
• “And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13

How will I focus on obedience to these commands to love God and love one another? I think this is a very challenging goal because we (or maybe I should just speak for myself) are naturally very self-centered. Perhaps that is why Jesus told us that the second greatest commandment (after loving God) is to “Love your neighbor as yourself.” And Jesus also gave us the Golden Rule: “Do to others as you would have them do to you.”

If our standard is how we love ourselves and want to be treated, then we have a guideline for how we should love others. In fact, as he is prone to do, Jesus gave us an even higher command. He said to love others more than ourselves, in that we should be willing to lay down our lives for another. “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13).  And he was our model.

How do we learn to love like Jesus?

1. We recognize that every human has been made in God’s image. James confirms this when he recognizes the doubleminded nature of our speech, “With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness” (James 3:9).
2. We cannot truly love God and others unless our hearts are in the right place. “We love because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19). In other words, we love because of Jesus; we love out of gratitude for his love for us.
3. We make the Golden Rule our baseline: we treat each other better than we expect to be treated.
4. We commit to love as Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”
5. We are especially mindful of what comes out of our mouths. “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen (Ephesians 4:29).

This is just a start, but if we can pursue these objectives we will be off to a very good start in growing in our love for others.

In Christ,

Judy

Psalm 103:2–5