My father was a stern but loving father. I won’t kid you, I was sometimes afraid of him, afraid of his wrath. I tried to behave so that I would not experience his wrath, but sometimes I failed. And Mom’s promise of “just wait until your daddy gets home” would make me miserable for the rest of the day. In case you are wondering, I did get some spankings; however, they were always followed with a short lecture and then he would hug me and tell me he loved me. In this way, he served as a great example, as all fathers should be, of our heavenly Father. He demanded respect, he demonstrated righteous anger, and he never failed to love me.
It’s too bad that many fathers today don’t provide an earthly example, even if imperfect, of our heavenly Father so that children can experience here on earth a bit of what God is like. I know it’s difficult to show the right balance of wrath and love; a deficiency of either is very dangerous. It’s critically important to know that the righteous anger is there and to be feared because without that, love manifested by grace has no meaning.
Here’s an example. If I could have disrespected my mother knowing I would get away with it, then the “kindness” shown me by my father by overlooking my disrespect would have not seemed to be very special. In fact, I might have even thought my father to be weak and not worthy of respect. However, when I knew that disrespecting my mother would invite the wrath of my father making me deserving of a spanking, I would have greatly appreciated any reprieve or grace.
Why am I talking about spankings? What I want us to realize is that God is righteous and holy and therefore, he is greatly offended when we are disrespectful and disobedient. As a holy and just God, he cannot abide sin; he hates sin. The only just penalty for sin is death. That’s where the cross comes in. He sent his only son, Jesus, to take our sins—past, present, and future—to the cross.
It was, and is, no small thing. This past Sunday we celebrated Jesus’ Resurrection. The Resurrection could not have happened without the Crucifixion. When Jesus made his triumphal entry into Jerusalem the Sunday before, he knew that he was going to experience the wrath of his “followers,” of his enemies, and most horrifically, of his Father. In his obedience to his Father which meant humiliation, torture, and death on the cross, he would bear the full wrath of God for all our sins, past present and future, for which each and every one of us deserves the punishment of death. He knew that it would be horrific, and that as a human, he would bear all the pain and torment that each of us deserves. In fact, in Matthew 26:39, we learn that “Going a little farther, he (Jesus) fell with his face to the ground and prayed, ‘My Father, if it is possible, may this cup (of wrath) be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.’”
Jesus trusted God, his Father, for the outcome, which we celebrated on Easter Sunday. Let us reflect on the love of God and the obedience of his Son, even to death on the cross, which allows us as believers to receive grace, celebrate Resurrection, and look forward to Eternal Life with our Heavenly Father. This song beautifully tells of God’s love for us: How He Loves Us, by Crowder.
I loved my earthly father. He has now passed on, and my love continues to grow for him. But sometimes I don’t think that I love my heavenly Father enough, considering what all He has done for me. I’m working on it, though.
In Christ,
Judy